The two Jacobs brothers
first sold their T-shirts on the street. Here they are at the South Boston
parade in 1993.
Bert and John Jacobs,
the brothers who cofounded the $100 million Life is Good T-shirt company, grew
up the youngest of six children in a lower middle class family in Boston.
When the brothers were
in elementary school, their parents were in a near-death car accident from
which their mother managed to escape with just a few broken bones — but their
father lost the use of his right hand.
The stress and
frustration from his physical therapy caused him to develop a harsh temper,
they explain in their new book, "Life is Good.
"He did a lot of
yelling when we were in grade school," John told Business Insider. And
life certainly wasn't perfect.
"There were often
difficult things happening around the house," the brothers write. But
their mom, Joan, still believed life was good. So, every night as the family
sat around the dinner table, she would ask her six kids to tell her something
good that happened that day.
"As simple as
mom's words were, they changed the energy in the room," the brothers
write. "Before we knew it, we were all riffing on the best, funniest, or
most bizarre part of our day."
John says this daily
exercise prevented them from developing a victim's mentality of "Oh, you
wouldn't believe this horrible thing that happened to me today." Instead
of griping about a teacher or homework assignment, he says they would be
laughing about a silly haircut a classmate got that day, or a neat project they
worked on at school.
"That optimism was
something that our family always had, even when we had little else," they
write.
Growing up with a
mother like theirs — one who sang in the kitchen, told animated stories, and
acted out children's books for them, no matter what bad situation they were
going through — taught them an important lesson: Being happy isn't dependent on
your circumstances. "She showed us that optimism is a courageous choice
you can make every day, especially in the face of adversity."
They say her unwavering
positive outlook on life is what inspired Life is Good — their $100 million
company that's mission is to spread the power of optimism, with the tagline,
"Life is not perfect. Life is not easy. Life is good."
Since their mother's
daily question served them so well in life, John says he and his brother now
ask their employees the same thing when they all come together — "tell me
something good" — and the results have been positive. "It leads to
ideas, which lead to progress, which leads to building on successes, instead of
dwelling on challenges," he explains.
By Natalie Walters
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